tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34070063.post3603996802098071651..comments2023-06-15T12:56:31.048-06:00Comments on Daily Thoughts and Random Ideas: Popping a BellyStorm Bunnyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01003995788897827115noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34070063.post-56261147703153282052011-09-05T06:43:29.995-06:002011-09-05T06:43:29.995-06:00Dear Julie,
That's the attitude! Having a chi...Dear Julie,<br /><br />That's the attitude! Having a child works for you and makes you happy. But does that mean that it makes everybody happy? Not at all, just like working as a baker doesn't fulfill everybody. You respect the diversity, you respect other people's choices, and that's what we all should be doing.<br /><br />Then also, as far as I know you, you are not one to push on other people's face your child and your pregnancy process. You are happy, you are proud but you do not impose on others, force them to see the whole experience. And you have your own ideas and you own life, and a very special, very smart philosophy. You are worth of admiration.<br /><br />However there are others, like Malignant Mellon, who disregards the rest of the world, centers everything on her children and then use them as excuse to do a poor job. As a parent, I believe, your responsabilities are heavier. You should not only act better, work better, stick better to your principles and values because that's the right thing to do, but also because you are human being learning from you. That's something many parents don't get, parents who act like their children are pets.<br /><br />Loved your commentStorm Bunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01003995788897827115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34070063.post-6134945933272162202011-09-03T20:31:27.915-06:002011-09-03T20:31:27.915-06:00You know that I'm a mom, but I'm not offen...You know that I'm a mom, but I'm not offended at all by your post. I understand why a lot of women choose not to have kids and that's totally fine with me.<br /><br />As for ME, I did have the feeling that my life was a little meaningless in my early twenties. I suffered from anxiety and just wasn't completely happy and fulfilled in life. However, everything changed after I had my son. But does that mean that people who don't have kids lead meaningless lives? Ha! Not at all.<br /><br />Now that Louis-Justin is older and is going to school, I think it's important for me to do MY stuff and I would never want to live my life through his like so many moms do. And I do get frustrated at times by the responsabilities I have as a parent. But I guess I'm lucky in a way because since my little guy's dad and I are separated, I get more free time than most moms do! ;) I'm sure that a lot of people would find my comment completely horrible and selfish, but I'm not ashamed. It's GOOD to have time away from Louis-Justin from time to time! For example, he's always with his dad on Sundays, so I never have to worry about anything on that day. It's a nice balance for me to spend time WITH him and time WITHOUT him. I love him with all my heart and I love the relationship we have, but I'm not ONLY a mom.<br /><br />So there you have it, my opinion on the subjetct! ;)Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10135105553937430517noreply@blogger.com